Today is the three-year anniversary of my mother’s death. While the immediate suffocating phase of grief has mainly dissipated, it’s still a day that I reflect upon my mother’s passing from this world, and the memories that remain.
If Mom had her way, she’d want me to remember her as a funny lady.
Mom loved to laugh and make other people laugh. As one can tell by reading my book, I also try to have a sense of humor, though Mom and I couldn’t be more opposite in our forms of humor. Mom loved to tell corny jokes and I’m far more sarcastic with a dry wit.
I was going through some paperwork that I had set aside at the time of her death, and discovered a manila envelope labeled, “Jokes.” Inside were a lot of jokes I remember from my childhood, such as the infamous “Rose Bowl” ticket.
I also found one of Mom’s final jokes, the “web” joke. Here’s how Mom wrote down that one:
I’m not a “hi-tech” person. I do have a cell phone, which is handy to use. But I have never been on the “web.” I take that back. I was on the “web” one time. I stepped on a spider web. Very sticky and I was unhappy about that. After losing 4 legs, the spider was very unhappy. I never returned to the web and neither did the spider.
Mom wrote a note underneath the joke: “I wrote this 3 years ago and is printable (?) right venue!!”
I think this blog is just the right venue.
2 responses to “Mom, the funny lady”
Thank you for printing this in just the right venue for your mom. I actually think it’s kind of funny. I do not like spiders or their webs. Heh.
Hugs to you on this anniversary. I know the suffocating grief has dissipated, but milestone dates have a way of bringing on melancholy. I can’t believe it’s 3 years. Even though many of us have dysfunctional relationships with family, it’s still difficult not to have parents anymore. Blessings to you.
Thanks Lori! Yes, I prefer to admire spiders and their webs from a distance, haha.