Those of us who have cared for loved ones with Alzheimer’s can’t help but think about their chances of developing the disease or another form of dementia. In her latest Dealing with Dementia blog post, Kay Bransford shares the most important things to consider.
I am guessing that many of you share my fear of dementia. For those of us with loved ones who have lived with it, we know how devestating it is for the individual as well as the loved ones that surround them. But it doesn’t have to be. Once diagnosed, you have so much opportunity […]
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Google’s Super Bowl commercial, “Loretta,” touched a nerve. I was very moved by the love story the commercial told, inspired by the grandfather of a Google employee. The ad shows how technology (in this case, Google Assistant) can be put to good use, allowing a man to fondly remember his late wife through images and sound. Many people felt the same way I did about the commercial, but a vocal minority expressed their reservations.
While I can understand people’s concerns about privacy rights and the automation of our lives, we can’t let our fears trump the benefits that technology can offer. For example, in this commercial from Google, a simple tool offered many benefits, especially to older generations and their caregivers.
- Digital photo album: While those of us of a certain age may treasure our physical photos, we have to understand that for younger generations, digital photographs are the norm. I love looking at old photos in physical form, but I also love having access to those same images online. It also makes sharing from afar so simple. In this day and age, when family members often don’t live near one another, this can be a major benefit.
- Using reminders to prompt memories: While critics found this feature creepy, those of us who have dealt with dementia in our families know how precious memories can be. I know of a family caregiver who writes out cards with explanations to the daily questions she receives from her mother who has dementia. The cards are a great source of comfort to her mother (and sanity-saving for the family!) A smart assistant could recite the recorded answers.
- Combatting loneliness: This point is controversial, as I read one commenter who interpreted the Google commercial to mean that we have permission to leave old lonely people on their own with a smart device as a substitute to visiting them. I don’t interpret the ad like that at all. But loneliness among the elder population, especially in rural areas, is a real concern. Anything we can do to alleviate that isolation can be beneficial both mentally and physically. My mother had a talking parrot toy she talked to when Dad moved to the memory care center. The need is there for such interactive devices.
I strongly feel it is in our best interest to embrace technology while holding companies accountable when they violate privacy rights and engage in other nefarious activities. Bottom line, technology is not going away. I prefer to educate myself and others on the benefits and be a responsible user versus burying my head in the doomsday bunker.
There’s no better time than February to celebrate family. And caregiving is one of the best ways to demonstrate unconditional love. Caregivers come in many forms, and one may not even recognize they are a caregiver. For those who care for children, pets and other family members, along with professional caregivers who treat their clients like family, this book giveaway is for you.
The Parenting, Pregnancy, Partners and Pets Giveaway will continue through the end of the month, and my award-winning book, The Reluctant Caregiver, is among the titles available. Hope you find some books to enjoy!
Valid through Feb. 29, 2020: Parenting, Pregnancy, Partners and Pets Giveaway via Prolific Works.
What we eat, and how we eat says a lot about who we are. If a loved one forgets to eat, add meals because they forgot they already ate, or start altering foods in strange ways, that may be a sign that it’s time to visit the doctor. In her recent blog post, Dr. Elaine Eshbaugh discusses common ways that dementia can alter a person’s dietary routine.
With my father, it meant he had an increased appetite, but sometimes forgot how to use utensils. Near the end of his life, he forgot how to swallow, which is a more complex action than people are aware of.
We eat to live. But food is more than fuel. Food has strong ties to family rituals, celebrations, and emotions. Food is love. I’m thinking of a time, over 15 years ago, when my long-term boyfriend dumped me like a bad habit. Food started arriving in the mail. My mom send Red Vines licorice. My […]
via Dementia and Dinner — When Dementia Knocks
Good tips! It’s so easy to overlook all of the alterations needed to keep an elder loved one, especially one with dementia, safe in the bathroom. My mother did not have dementia, but she fell and broke her shoulder while using the toilet in the middle of the night. She never fully recovered from that injury, and her mobility was limited because of it. Falls in the bathroom are all too common, so beware the risks and take action to keep your loved one safe.
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Hope everyone had a good holiday and that your new year is off to a good start.
The fact that there is a caregiver shortage is not new; however a Quartz article posted this week has put the issue back on the national radar. The article cites the slowing population growth, along with increased longevity and a decrease in immigration among the issues that will potentially trigger a caregiving crisis. By 2030, that shortage may grow to more than 100,000 caregivers for the elderly, according to Quartz.
Here are some ways we could address this major healthcare issue:
- Pay caregivers a livable wage: In order to recruit new generations into a caregiving career, we’re going to have to revamp the woefully inadequate pay scale. Professional caregivers deserve to have decent pay, benefits, and access to training and educational opportunities to grow in their fields. Caregiving should no longer be a job of last resort; it should be a career choice one takes pride in.
- Immigration policies: We need a fair immigration policy that offers those interested in becoming U.S. citizens an opportunity for a stable career in a field with severe shortages. Too often, immigrants who become caregivers, especially those with questionable legal status, are taken advantage of and paid below minimum wage without benefits.
- Offer incentives: Just like with geriatric or rural medicine, caregiving is not a “sexy” career choice. Certainly it can be rewarding, but in order to fill the large care gap we may need to get innovative. I’m a fan of the Care Corps concept, and a student loan forgiveness program in exchange for serving as a caregiver could attract candidates.
- Offer better support for family caregivers: Realistically, the bulk of caregiving duties will likely continue to fall on family members. We need to support them better, by employers offering flexible work schedules and the government embracing universal family care. A tax credit would help some with the financial hit family caregivers suffer.
There is no easy fix, but we definitely need to keep pushing this topic into the general conversation and advocate for common-sense actions and programs to alleviate the caregiving shortage and burden on family members.