July 12, 2026 · 3:54 pm

New research suggests soccer players may experience brain health changes in midlife

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The World Cup has dominated the headlines over the last month and is set to wrap up over the next week. At the 2026 Alzheimer’s Association International Conference, new research was shared that found some former soccer players have developed concerning changes in their brains in midlife. There’s no direct link established yet, but scientists are keen on conducting more research to determine if plays like headers, which involve hitting the ball with one’s head, increase the risk of brain issues later in life.

In the US, we are more aware of the dangers of playing American football and the damage that repeated concussions can have on the brain. Less research has been done on soccer, but that is now changing. In the latest study, 142 former professional soccer players from the UK were compared to a smaller control group who had not played contact sports or experienced repetitive head impacts. The study found “significantly higher symptoms of depression (31% in former soccer players vs 9% in control group), and anxiety (42% in former soccer players vs 25% for control group). The study also found that the former soccer players self-rated a worse “ability to plan, focus on and solve problems and manage daily tasks, compared to the control group.”

A review of brain scans of the 124 former soccer players found “lower gray matter volume in several brain regions, including frontal, cingulate and thalamic areas that play important roles in memory, attention, decision-making and emotional regulation, compared to controls.”

It should be noted that these findings are preliminary and will require following former players over time to prove any links with soccer play and brain health. The Alzheimer’s Association did note that other research shared at the conference “link greater heading exposure and longer soccer careers with biomarkers of neural injury, tau accumulation and chronic traumatic encephalopathy (CTE) risk.”

CTE risk for American football players has been studied more extensively. Just this past week, the family of the late Dallas Cowboys player Marshawn Kneeland shared that he was posthumously diagnosed with stage 1 CTE. Kneeland, who died by suicide in 2025, was just 24 years old, suggesting that brain health can be impacted at a much younger age than previously known. I wrote earlier this year about research that found former NFL players with the most advanced form of CTE had a four times increased odds for having dementia.

Understanding the impact that playing sports can have over a person’s lifetime is critical so we can develop safeguards to better protect the health of athletes while not taking away from the excitement of competitive sports.

Reminder: I’m participating in the Smashwords July Summer/Winter sale. Get my books, including the award-winning The Reluctant Caregiver, for half-off the normal price. The sale runs all month long.

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July 6, 2026 · 8:00 am

Marking Mom’s birthday

Today would have been Mom’s 89th birthday. As much as we were polar opposites in personality, I do find as I age that I’ve picked up some of her habits.

I’ve also been thinking of Mom recently because of a new project that I’ve been working on, Caregiver Vent. I’ve created a quiz-based resource for caregivers looking to earn a bit of extra money by taking surveys and sharing their opinion on caregiving and a variety of other topics. I’ve been doing surveys for the past several months and I was surprised at how often caregiver topics come up. No one knows better than caregivers that there’s a lot of room for improvement and caregivers have the personal experience needed to make a difference.

Mom loved giving her opinions about products and services. She didn’t wait for a survey; she was proactive and called. And when there was not a consumer feedback phone number readily available on the package, she’d call me to track it down on the internet. Over the years she gave feedback on everything from coffee canister lids to juice products. Companies would send her coupons and even branded items for her valuable feedback. It helped the companies but helped my mother as well; it made her feel useful and talking to customer service representatives eased her loneliness.

Finally, Mom loved a good deal. She had coupons for everything! So I have to share that I’m participating in the Smashwords July Summer/Winter sale. Get my books, including the award-winning The Reluctant Caregiver, for half-off the normal price. The sale runs all month long.

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June 28, 2026 · 2:50 pm

Heat waves: Stay safe and hydrate

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Each year I share a post about the dangers of heat when it comes to our elder loved ones. Here in Atlanta we are facing a heat advisory this week with temperatures in the mid-90s and high humidity. What’s miserable for some of us can be dangerous for those who are older or have certain health conditions.

In addition to having adequate cooling options such as air conditioning, staying properly hydrated is critical. Drinking enough liquids is something older people can struggle with, which surprised me, but I saw the behavior with my own parents. I also saw how being dehydrated could change one’s cognitive functioning in a significant way. I thought my mother was developing dementia but it turned out she was dehydrated and her sodium levels were out of balance. It was remarkable how quickly she regained her mental functions once she received saline fluids in the hospital.

Water by itself can be boring to some people, so keep in mind that all fluids count. There are also plenty of flavored, unsweetened or low-sugar beverage options on the market now that make staying hydrated more enjoyable. I enjoy flavored sparkling water, and Hint makes flavored still water. You can also buy a wide range of flavored powders to add to water or other beverages that support hydration and can provide additional nutrients. Products like Jelly Drops deliver a hydration boost and are popular with elders.

If you are experiencing a heat wave in your area, check on elder loved ones to make sure they have the support they need to remain comfortable and safe.

Summer safety tips from The Memories Project

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June 21, 2026 · 9:00 am

Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day. The Memories Project was started in memory of my father. As a baby, I was definitely daddy’s little girl. As I grew older, I gravitated towards my mother as I spent most of my time with her. Dad worked the swing shift so once I started school, our schedules didn’t overlap much. I moved halfway across the country for college and so Dad and I never had the chance to reconnect on a deeper level.

Alzheimer’s is a cruel reminder of what you’ve lost of a loved one before they are actually gone from this world.

Fortunately I have photos and cards and recordings of my father singing to me when I was a baby so I will always remember that special father-daughter bond we had.

Hope you are able to spend time with your father today or find comfort in the memories.

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June 14, 2026 · 10:00 am

Caregiver guilt can be a motivating force

I came across a documentary series by Peter Murphy Lewis who was recently profiled on Being Patient. He candidly admits to “making a documentary out of guilt.” He was in another country working when his beloved grandfather, who had dementia, died.

From his grief and guilt came the idea for a documentary series, “People Worth Caring About.”


“We treat the buildings where our elders live as places of “sadness,” which inadvertently devalues the people who work there. It turns a noble calling into an invisible job,” Lewis said. His goal with the project is to shine a light on those workers who care for our elder loved ones.

My own family caregiving experience followed a similar road. I was in another state, working, when my father died from Alzheimer’s complications. I too remember getting that dreaded call while on the job. I also experienced a deep amount of guilt that I was mostly a long-distance caregiver. And similar to Lewis, that guilt inspired the birth of a creative project about caregiving. In my case, it’s the blog that you are reading right now, The Memories Project.

If you find yourself weighed down by guilt after the loss of a loved one, consider ways you can honor your loved one’s memory with your own unique skillset. It doesn’t have to be a public project. I know of people who have created a memorial garden in their backyard. It could also be a conscious lifestyle choice: to spend more quality time with family, to travel more, to take up a new hobby or reconnect with an old friend.

Everyone moves through the grief process in their own way. For some, embarking on such a project can bring some meaning and closure to one of the most difficult events a person can experience.

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June 7, 2026 · 2:56 pm

A reminder about the high cost of Alzheimer’s care

Paying for Managed Care

I write a lot about the high cost of Alzheimer’s care, because I feel it’s vital that society understands just how expensive such specialized care is and how little government support there is to help middle-class families pay for it. I’m sharing this post from Mary K. Doyle who writes about her husband’s Alzheimer’s experience and outlines the costs involved whether one tries to care for their loved one at home or places them in a memory care facility.

As Doyle suggests, the best time to plan for such medical decisions is early in the Alzheimer’s journey. I wrote in The Reluctant Caregiver about the consequences of my parents not being prepared after my father experienced a medical emergency and could not be returned home due to his advanced Alzheimer’s disease. These are tough conversations to have, but being able to make such decisions while your loved one still is able to contribute their wishes is a true gift, and will give you some peace of mind as you navigate care options later down the road.

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May 30, 2026 · 5:36 pm

New study suggests sleep helps clear brain waste, may reduce dementia risk

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One aspect of my health that I’m immensely grateful for is that I’m able to fall asleep easily and consistently get a good night’s sleep. I’ve watched other people, including my mother, struggle with insomnia and how much of an impact it can have on overall well-being. If you or someone you’ve lived with has insomnia, you understand about the nightly anxiety, the restless tossing and turning, the exhaustion that comes with sleep deprivation, and the side effects of sleep medication.

It turns out that sleep quality may play a role in dementia risk. I’ve written about past studies that explored sleep and cognitive health, so this isn’t a new concept. A new study published in Science goes a step further to explore the activities that take place in the brain during sleep and the impact those activities may have on dementia risk.

In essence, during deep sleep, the brain performs housekeeping tasks that helps clear the brain of waste products. Disrupted sleep leads to less clearance of these neurotoxins such as amyloid-beta and tau, which in turn can increase inflammation and degeneration. These proteins are thought to have a connection to Alzheimer’s disease risk, though no definitive link has been established. (Some people with normal cognitive functioning have been identified as having high levels of amyloid-beta and tau in the brain.)

The study’s author also found that “heart-rate variability may be a biomarker of sleep-related brain health.” If further research supports this theory, it would be a simple tool to help identify those with poor sleep quality who may be a greater risk of dementia. If you wear a health tracker, your HRV data may already be collected. My Oura ring captures that information nightly.

They say as you get older you need less sleep; so far I still need about 7 hours to function normally. I used to sleep longer on the weekends but now I don’t, maybe 30 minutes longer if the pets will allow. Working remotely full-time definitely helps, as I’m able to awake naturally without an alarm clock.

According to the study’s author, “Regular sleep schedules, sufficient sleep duration, physical activity, minimizing stress, and avoiding stimulants or bright light exposure late in the evening” is recommended to support healthy sleep.

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May 21, 2026 · 6:51 pm

Remembering my mother, 11 years after her death

Death has a way of warping time. While 11 years doesn’t feel that long to me, it does seem like my mother died in a different era. For me, her death was the end of normal times, and the decade that has followed has ushered in a world I barely recognize.

As those who have experienced loss of a loved one knows, grief is not linear. It moves in unpredictable waves. Another way of describing it is “growing around grief.”

My mother doesn’t visit me that often in dreams but one way I feel her presence is each year, around the time of the anniversary of her death, the butterfly bush I planted in her honor begins to bloom.

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May 17, 2026 · 9:00 am

Alzheimer’s Association offers new brain health challenge

Those of us concerned about Alzheimer’s risk know there are many steps we can take to support our cognitive health, but sometimes the advice can feel overwhelming. Where to begin? What’s more important, exercise or diet? The Alzheimer’s Association is trying to help address this issue by launching a focused 6-step challenge, called “(re)think your brain.”

The challenge will focus on areas such as eating right, getting exercise, and challenging your mind.

Sometimes, a little accountability is all we need to establish a healthy routine. The free program uses an interactive tool to help gauge what you are already doing well to support your brain, and the areas where you could use a little motivation and guidance.

Each participant that completes the initial onboarding process will receive a customized Action Plan. Users can expect to receive via their preferred method of email or text:

  • Practical tips to get started
  • Tools to help build habits that stick
  • Clear guidance from the leaders in brain health

Life gets busy and family caregivers tend to put off self-care. As we head into summer, consider taking the brain challenge.

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May 10, 2026 · 9:00 am

Happy Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day stirs a mixed range of emotions for me, as it does for many whose mothers are no longer alive. As I wrote about in The Reluctant Caregiver, my mother and I often did not see eye to eye. Yet there is a bond that can never be broken. I took my first breath in her presence, and she took her last breath in my presence.

I was getting my hair cut yesterday, and out of nowhere, I thought about one of the last photos ever taken of my mother, which was at the hair salon. How she even managed to get out of the house in the pain she was in, I don’t fully comprehend, but she loved to have her hair done.

She was gone two months later.

For those who are grieving this Mother’s Day, I hope you are able to find some comfort and peace through memories and reflections.

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