I was recently introduced to a resourceful website called StayorMove.org. The site focuses on what is are the most crucial questions as we grow older, such as do we stay put in our current homes or do we move on to a different location or live in an assisted living facility?
It’s questions we all should ask ourselves, but many people wait until a health issue makes the decision for them. That’s why I like the approach found on the StayorMove website, which is easy to navigate and uses a series of videos to address the pros and cons of a variety of housing options.
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I also appreciated the fact that growing old in a rural environment was addressed. Those who follow this blog know this is an issue that’s important to me, because my parents’ health care was compromised by living in a small town with limited medical resources. They have a series of videos on the Village movement, which seeks to connect neighbors and volunteers to help elders age in place, while valuing the contributions of elders to the community. I’d love to see this concept expand.
The videos are brief but informative, and hopefully will encourage the “stay or move” conversation to continue. The more people are educated, the better decisions they can make about their own aging and housing choices.
A good reminder that not everyone reacts well to fireworks, including people with dementia. (This can also apply to people with autism and pets, among other groups.) Have a safe and happy Fourth of July!
As if sundowning weren’t a challenge for those with dementia and their caregivers we add fireworks to the mix on July 4th each year. A person who once loved fireworks may respond differently now. For someone with dementia, the loud pops and explosions can trigger memories of wartime experiences causing a return or worsening of […]
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While I expect long, hot and humid summers in Atlanta, this spring and beginning of summer has been particularly brutal. Atlanta has already recorded stretches of 90-plus degree weather and the summer season has just started. I was taking a look at the national map and it looks like much of the country is experiencing hot temperatures.
That’s why I thought it was a good time to remind everyone to check in on elder relatives and neighbors more often during periods of extreme heat. As I wrote in this article last year that was posted on The Caregiver Space, seniors can be stingy when it comes to their use of air conditioning. Some of this comes from frugal living during tough economic times, when thing like AC were considered modern luxuries. But in some parts of the country, fans may not be enough to battle the heat. (I learned this the hard way when I stayed at my parents’ condo in New Mexico, which doesn’t have air conditioning, and had to endure 90-degree weather.)
Here are some simple tips that can mean the difference between life and death during the summer months:
- If your elder loved one lives independently, check in on them more often during heat waves. Ask how they are holding up. Are they using air conditioning or fans?
- If possible, visit in person, or have a neighbor, caregivers or family friend visit. Make sure elders in the residence aren’t showing any signs of excessive heat exposure. Seniors can be more susceptible to heat stress, according to the CDC.
- Hydration is key. It was always a struggle to get my mother to drink enough water, and I’ve found this is a common trait among seniors, compared to my generation which seems to carry around a water bottle everywhere.
- Monitor seniors’ activities to make sure they are not overdoing it when the forecast predicts extreme temperatures. Encourage any physical activity early in the day before the weather heats up.
- Encourage the use of community cooling centers.
In this day and age, no one should die because of a heat wave. Yet every year, we read of tragic cases, many involving older people. This is one of those situations where it indeed “takes a village” to make sure people stay safe.
What are your tips for staying cool?
Please share this with any current family caregivers in your life. It is so inspiring to be in a room with fellow caregivers, sharing the ups and downs of the caregiving experience.
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I’m always open to sharing my caregiving story with individuals and organizations who are championing causes near and dear to my heart. Alzheimer’s is, of course, one of those causes. My father’s brutal experience with the disease prompted me to create The Memories Project blog.
Being Patient is an independent news site dedicated to sharing the latest and most accurate developments in Alzheimer’s and brain health research. It was founded by Deborah Kan, who was an executive producer at the Wall Street Journal before creating the site after her mother’s Alzheimer’s disease diagnosis. I love the idea of serious journalists covering the important developments going on in the world of Alzheimer’s research, so I was happy to help the cause when asked.
I contributed an article about the challenges of rural caregiving for the site’s Voices section, which puts the spotlight on family caregivers. I saw many familiar faces in that section, as the online world of Alzheimer’s caregivers is a tight-knit group. It was good to see my fellow caregivers sharing their unique perspectives. It’s so important for people who are past and present caregivers to tell their story. There are so many areas where caregivers need greater support, and there’s nothing like a heartfelt story to prompt people to take action.
What are your favorite websites for news about Alzheimer’s and caregiver support?
While the progression of Alzheimer’s is different for each person, there is a progression, and it’s a heartbreaking one.
On Sunday, 60 Minutes aired its latest installment following the life of Carol Daly and her journey with Alzheimer’s. This year marks 10 years since the show first made contact with Carol and her husband Mike, a former NYPD officer.
It’s gut-wrenching to watch the mental and physical decline of Carol over the years, and how much Mike suffers as a caregiver. But Carol’s story is important to tell, to help raise awareness of this devastating disease to a mass audience. I am grateful for Mike and Carol for allowing cameras to document the cruelest aspects of Alzheimer’s.
Watch the full 60 Minutes segment
The segment touches upon important topics, such as the high cost of Alzheimer’s caregiving and the lack of financial support, along with the physical and emotional toll dementia caregivers takes on loved ones. You know Alzheimer’s is a beast when the former cop tells the CBS correspondent that caregiving is the toughest job he’s ever had.
The sad truth of course is that there are many Mikes and Carols out there, fighting their own battles with dementia. And that’s why we must do better, as a government and as a society, to help families caring for a loved one with dementia.