This is a very good message to pass along to the dementia caregiving community. While I tend to focus on the struggles of being a reluctant caregiver, it’s important to note that some caregivers do find a way to maintain a decent quality of life. As Elaine points out in her blog post, having sufficient funds to cover care costs is part of it, but attitude is also a factor.
Click through the link below to read the thoughtful post from When Dementia Knocks:
I write a lot about the challenges of dementia caregivers…their high rates of clinical depression and anxiety…their loneliness…their daily stressors. This post doesn’t change anything I’ve written in the past, but I do want to acknowledge something. Some caregivers are doing okay. Some caregivers are happy. Some caregivers are enjoying life and thriving. That doesn’t […]
The Happy Caregiver — When Dementia Knocks
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The Happy Caregiver — When Dementia Knocks
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When Money Habits Change — Dealing with Dementia
This is such an important topic and I’m grateful for Kay Bransford’s excellent blog post. As my father’s dementia progressed, simple tasks like paying for groceries or a fast food meal became a challenge that caused my father to become angry and accuse others of trying to rip him off. My mother eventually had to take over those tasks. After my father’s death, my mother’s loneliness made her susceptible to the barrage of telemarketers who would call on a daily basis. As a long-distance caregiver, it was difficult and frustrating for me to try and manage from afar.
Click on the link below to read the helpful post on Dealing with Dementia:
There were a few odd conversations with my Mom when things didn’t make sense. But the most alarming thing was when I realized my parents had changed their decades-long habit of giving every January. I started to notice that my mother was writing checks to charities that they had never previously supported. I would read…
When Money Habits Change — Dealing with Dementia
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Guest post: How to Help Your Senior Loved One Stay Healthy from Afar
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I’ve been blessed recently to have two guest authors submit pieces to share on The Memories Project. Today’s post is written by Claire Wentz of Caring from Afar. It is an especially appropriate topic to discuss as we practice social distancing due to the coronavirus.
When you have a senior loved one who lives far away, it can be stressful to ensure they are well taken care of at all times. Travel may not always be feasible, especially if you work outside the home or have family obligations, and it can be expensive. Fortunately, there are some things you can do to ensure that your loved one is safe, healthy, and comfortable no matter how far away you are. Using technology to your advantage is always a good idea; here are some tips on how you can utilize it as well as some ideas on how to help the senior in your life stay safe and happy.
Take Advantage of Smartphones
Smartphones are a useful tool for seniors since they provide a way to contact friends and loved ones as well as a way to stream content and play games and puzzles via apps that will help keep their cognitive skills sharp. You can also download a location-tracking app to their phone so that you can locate your loved one in case of emergencies. If your loved one is unsure of how to use a smart device, look for a class near them (or online) that will help them learn the ins and outs of phones and tablets.
Help Them Invest in Smart Tech
These days, there are several different kinds of smart tech available for the home, and it’s a great way for seniors to be more independent and safe. From home security systems to voice-activated virtual assistants and smart appliances, there are so many ways seniors can utilize technology in their everyday lives and make it a seamless transition. Talk to your loved one about their specific needs, such as whether they could use a virtual assistant that will give them voice control over everything from making phone calls to turning on the oven.
Help Them Find a Hobby
Hobbies are wonderful things; not only do they help us stay happy and boost our mental health, but they can also affect our physical wellness. From playing a sport to woodworking and gardening, there are many different kinds of hobbies out there that are perfect for seniors of any age. So, talk to your loved one about their favorite things to do and help them find a group in their area to join or an online group where they can feel like they’re a part of something and remain social. If the hobby involves physical activity, all the better, as seniors need daily exercise in order to prevent many health issues and falls.
Talk to Their Neighbors
Whether your loved one owns their home or rents an apartment, it’s a good idea to talk to their neighbors and get to know them a little. Creating a rapport with the people closest to your loved one will help to give you peace of mind when you live far away, as they may be able to help out when you’re not there. Exchange information so you can stay in touch with one another, especially if your loved one lives alone or is aging in place.
Helping a loved one stay healthy and safe when you live far away can be challenging, but with the aid of technology and a few lifestyle changes, the senior in your life can ensure that they are safe and comfortable throughout the years.
Learn more caregiver tips at Caring from Afar.
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